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March 13, 2010 By: saurf Druvmi Category: Uncategorized

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Open Question: public schools? private schools?

im a 13 year old kid and iv gone to a christian private school all my life and my life has always been fine but know im almost done with 7th grade and almost everyone in my class (we have a small school, there are only 10 people in my class) is wanting to go to public schools, only 5 people in my class including me have never been to a public school and i feel like im left out, like i have no friends because i dont have many friends outside of school and it's a small school. My parents are determined to keep me in a public school till college and I am a christian:) and i love my school but now everyone hates it and i dont really want to go to a public school anyway, i wouldnt fit in and i just dont know how to make myself feel better:( i feel like i have just realized how pathetic my life and i feel unlucky that i don't have the experience of going to a public school and like im like a whimp and like ugh! i justt dont know what to do anymore! my question is what should i do to make myself feel good about my life?

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Open Question: What do you think of UCSD?

Hey guys, gimme some advice! I am super excited to have found out I got into UCSD, the Eleanor Roosevelt College! I've also gotten into Irvine, and probably Davis. I'm visiting all the schools I get accepted to in during Spring Break, but lately I've been reading online reviews of colleges. And honestly, they all make the schools sound horrible. From a UCSD student (or former student) could you please give me advice? Honest, true, helpful insights that could make me understand the school better? How conservative is it in La Jolla? Would I, someone who's pretty liberal, be able to find my niche? How's the study abroad program? I know the campus is pretty strict about drinking and partying, but is there any kind of social scene? Have you had fun in SD? How's the academics? I'm considering law, global studies, and journalism. How's SD as a choice for me? Did you like your overall experience at SD? Good parts? Bad parts? Would you pick differently?

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Open Question: do colleges know when you decide to turn down their acceptance and go to a different college?

just curious :) oh and if my question makes no sense let me give an example! lets just say umm mary gets accepted into ucla but she also gets accepted into boston university she decides to commit to bostonsends her money saying she wants to attend and all that good stuff. is there a way for ucla to know that she is not going to attend their schoollike before the usual may 1st deadlines?

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Open Question: engine will not turn over. have already replaced battery, battery cabels, starter is good. wtf is wrong?

turn key and nothing. You can hear everything come on but it will not start?

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Open Question: Buy or Sell: If hip hop is dying or declining it is only because we are stuck in the 90's?

Don't get me wrong I loved a lot of that music, a lot slapped, and it was mos def a great period. But people can't seem to move on and that's stunting the growth of the genre now. A lot of good stuff is out now but people refuse to listen to it because it isn't by a 90's artist or doesn't have that 90's sound. Iono, maybe it's just me but i feel like the music can't develop if we want to pigeon hold it in a 90's frame of time.

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Open Question: Accounting Homework average cost?

Inventory Costing: Average Cost Bordeaux Company has the following information related to purchases and sales of one of its inventory items: Date Description Units Purchased at Cost Units Sold at Retail June 1 Beginning Inventory 150 units @ $10 = $1,500 9 Purchase 1 200 units @ $12 = $2,400 14 Sale 1 300 units @ $25 22 Purchase 2 250 units @ $14 = $3,500 29 Sale 2 238 units @ $25 Assume that Bordeaux uses a perpetual inventory system. Calculate the cost of goods sold and the cost of ending inventory using the average cost method. (Use four decimal places for per unit calculations and round all other numbers to the nearest dollar.)

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Open Question: Long hair or short hair?

the first picture is a picture of me when i was darker and had long bleeched hair. The second picture of me i am lighter skinned, short natural colored hair. just curious, what matched me better? http://c1.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/29/l_e0aa44a23dcfbeb77aa266521569c6fc.jpg http://c1.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/142/l_3c8ecd4cb9864a85ac93506710c50a30.jpg (and can you not say i look like a slut in the second one, that is my gogo picture. and the only long picture i have. sorry)

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Open Question: tell me how this poem sound like.is this poem good?

well all my words have finish and there is nothing say. dont u cry please and all i wonder is you all the day there is a light thats i see but i know that it is not for me. dont know what hapen to you. i would you if i knewed nwt you want to go away from me baby i love you ,cant u see. they say love is blind so i think you are in love with heaven child so my word has finish all i wat to say to you is bye well i am just trying plsz say to me is ths ok .i need ur help . if there is any eroor or any ryme mistake .or any thing telll me . i am just trying . i want to write other poem too . but 1st help me guys.

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Open Question: Are being short and having a big head and nose REALLY big turn offs?

I mean cause I have all 3 but a fairly good bod. Lemme know.

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Open Question: Encouraging a 4 year old to overcome her fear.?

My little sister has fallen of playground equipment whilst trying to climb it and she fell and hurt herself fairly bad. Ever since, she refuses to go on anything which requires her to climb. If anyone has any good pointers about how to help a child overcome their fear of climbing that would be much appreciatedand she's 4 years old.

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Open Question: Accounting Homework help needed!?

nventory Costing: LIFO Bordeaux Company has the following information related to purchases and sales of one of its inventory items: Date Description Units Purchased at Cost Units Sold at Retail June 1 Beginning Inventory 150 units @ $9 = $1,350 9 Purchase 1 200 units @ $12 = $2,400 14 Sale 1 300 units @ $25 22 Purchase 2 250 units @ $14 = $3,500 29 Sale 2 225 units @ $25 Assume that Bordeaux Company uses a perpetual inventory system. Calculate the cost of goods sold and the cost of ending inventory using the LIFO inventory costing method.

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Open Question: Any music blogs that periodically suggest new music? preferably sort of indy stuff?

I love finding new music and new bands, but it can be difficult. Are there any blogs out there that provide info/ ratings on new music? i'd really like to here about new artists/bands like Bon Iver, Death Cab for Cutie, and Jose Gonzalez, but I honestly listen to everything, so a general music blog would be good to. leave a link in the sources section of your answer :)

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Open Question: Where are the best little towns to live in?

When I turn 18 I'm leaving my home state colorado. I've had so many bad memorys there. So any issues I can not ever and will never find the answer to. I love small towns the most. Where are some good ones at where I could start new?

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Open Question: does anyone know the name of the ring tone on max skinners cell phone in the movie a good year?

how can i get the ring tone on my cell phone?

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Open Question: What kind of dog what suit this profile?

Long-ish coat Medium to Large sized Easy to train (As in good for a first time owner, like it won't question the commands) Good for jogging partner (so no major limb problems with patellas or something) Dog breeds that are off my list Labradors Golden retrievers German Shepherds ( Please note: I KNOW that I have to train the dog, the time involved ect. I have been doing research into dog breeds for months now, and I have been wanting a dog for exercise reasons for about a year now. So please please please don't tell me sh*t like 'You have to train the dog dumbas* and you'd make an awful owner' or something like 'Go to a shelter you heartless pr*ck' seriously people in this section can be really mean when you ask genuine questions )

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Open Question: When winding a voice coil,is it better to use a larger or smaller awg(gage) wire?

I've heard it is better to to use a smaller awg(gage)but I'm not sure,that was only from one source.I'm trying to get more opinions.If it makes a difference,I plan to use square wire.thanks for the time!

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Open Question: Some question of Charles de Gaulle if you know a bit of history?

School project, doing French president. Oral power point presentation. Please help? -major influence on political views and values -goals and objectives -forces that supported -forces that resisted -style of leadership and how this was demonstrated -what good speech that you know of -reasons of success -impact and lasting contribution I don't expect you to write me an essay or anything. I was sick and got this project late. Presentaions start tomorrow. Thanks. Please don't just give me the wiki link as I can get that myself. But if you know of other really good sites; please post links. Thank you so much!

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Open Question: what are the health risk of getting a septum piercing?

plz dont talk about how you think they look good or bad :)

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Open Question: I need new ideas on where to meet people.?

I'm stuck in the house. Blah! I'm in a college town and I want to meet more people. Though I don't really want to go to a bar / club. Really no where that charges 5 dollars for a drink ( no coffee shops either) Maybe someone will have a good idea? I mean besides stalking women in a store or at a library. Librarys aren't in use during spring break anyways. Church isn't going on either. PS it's 11 here.

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Open Question: Which hair oil is better?

Among the followings, which hair oil is better for dry, damaged hair and also for dandruff and hairfall 1.Bajaj Almond drops 2. Keo karpin hair oil 3. Vatika 4.Dabour Amla or Dabour amla lite If you know any other non-sticky hair oil to list here please tell me. Thank you for advance.

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Open Question: He got back with his ex and I feel awful. I don't even now how to feel. How do I move on?

This guy and I liked eachother about a year ago but it didnt work out, we didnt even go out, so we stopped talking to eachother but we had strong feelings for eachother and I wanted to give him a chance. About a month ago he told me he still liked me but was in an on and off relationsip with his ex. A lot of facts about him talking to me again told me that he was just using me to get over his ex but I didnt want to believe it because I reallly like him and he is the only guy at school I would date. Today he posted pictures of him and his girlfriend and now its clear that he loves her and probably didnt like me like he said he did. Now I am very upset and I dont know how to feel, I dont want to look for other people because that is how bad I feel. I dont feel like eating ice cream, or writing a poem, or listening to any songs I just want to know whats the best way to feel better because right now I feel like crap becasue he is the only one at school I feel I am compatible with. I've been singe for four years too so thats a long time. -Please let me know what you would do

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Open Question: Marijuana and the Buddha?

I'm having some difficulty seeing things clearly with this herb right now. I'm trying to become a Buddha and I know about the 5th precept and how intoxication leads to suffering. Marijuana isn't really a drug, its a plant. It does give you an effect that does technically qualify as being intoxicated but this "intoxication" almost helps me more than hurts me. And the Buddha did reportedly eat hemp seeds before his enlightenment. Why hemp? Was there a reason? So I guess my question iswell I need some good hard reasons why this plant is detrimental to my spiritual practice. Yes its an intoxicationof sorts but it just seems to go both ways most times. What is the real reason marijuana is bad from Buddhist perspective? But I would like to know it deeply. Not just because its an intoxication but what about this intoxication is bad and leads me astray? Maybe this is going to much into what is already said. about it being an intoxication but I feel like I need some good hard evidence for me to contemplate. Maybe list the positives and the negatives from a Buddhist view. And please don't go into legal issues with this like how crime rates went down when some country made it legal to use and how you think it should be legal. Only bring up the legal issue unless you think it being illegal creates bad karma when you use it. Keep it strictly between buddha and marijuana please! Thanks!

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Open Question: Why would my unemployment claim be suspended?

I live in California and i filed for unemployment is September, got a telephone interview in November and they said they would contact me in 3 days if something didn't match up with the employer and 10 days for a decision. It is now March and still no notice. I emailed them and got a reply saying my claim has been suspended and i am required to reactivate it by doing a online application. Why would they suspend my claim? And why would they not notify me?? I also don't see why I need to do another application with the same information. This is my first time applying for unemployment. I was working for a company and received a notice saying i voluntarily quit, i obviously didn't but i guess thats better than putting on there i was fired. I had many problems with the company with discrimination and not receiving payments so i shouldn't' have been fired or whatever. Has this ever happened to anyone else? Have you had your claim suspended before you even get a notice of approval or denial. I'd like to know whats going on. It's like impossible to get a hold of EDD by phone. Please somebody help me figure this out. Thank you.

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Open Question: What are some good how-to websites for craft?

What are some good websites with instructions how to make crafts.Im really after grownups crafts not childrens crafts please.Websites like Instructables.com for example or things along those line or how to make vases or bags etc. Thankyou

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Open Question: my pictures wont upload proberly.?

Ok, I swear to you that im not this vain little prick that craves constant positive reinforcment haha sometimes thought. ok, I know this dude who was going off about how he was chosen for beautifulpeople.com because he was "good looking" (his words). I was all, dude, I bet i could get on that site. ohh for those of you who dont know, its like a social networking site for people labled as beautiful people..lol true story. I thought i'd do it for kicks. my problem: Ok inorder to get voted onto this site, you have to be able to upload some photos of yourself into your profile. This profile will be reviewed by members and rated for membership. Now I tried and tried but the loading screen keept running. nothing was uploading. I have no idea why. Myspace pics upload with no problem. Facebook, no problem, youtube, no problem, yahoo answers, no problem. Could it be because this site is flash based with some sort of script? if so, is there a work around? btw, I have internet explorer8, windows vista, and nortan suit that came with comcast(internet provider)..and all are set on the default setting. cool, thanks

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Open Question: Should we sacrifice our individual lives to be with each other?

I am a year away from getting my BS at the University of Utah in Salt Lake City. I love the school, I love the program, and I really want my diploma to be from them. My best friend and lover is working in Las Vegas, he loves his job, he makes good money, and he's really good at what he does. And with his work, he has to be in Las Vegas, there is no room for transferring. We've been best friends since junior high school, and over the years have grown in love. We want to get married eventually, but we both agree that we're still a bit young for that and want to wait until we're definitely ready. We both have a lot going for us, but we're miserable because we're so far apart. I'm still paying my own way through college, and don't have extra money to fly or drive down to see him very often. And he's very busy with work, and doesn't like cold weather, so he can rarely come to see, and prefers to only come during summer months. We make sure we see each other for holidays and birthdays, but the rest of the time is so hard without him. I feel like my school work is suffering because I'm always distracted with him on my mind. He's been telling me he's feeling really depressed having to work so much without having someone to come home to. I know I only have a year left, so it won't be so much longer without him, but I'm really not sure I'm able to go another year. I feel so torn, because I want to get my degree from this school, but I can't be so far away from him anymore. If I transferred to UNLV, or another school, it would take me 2 years longer, and cost a lot more because I would have to pay out of state tuition. No matter what I do I have to make a sacrifice, I'm just not sure which I should give up. I have no idea how military wives do this, they must be the strongest women in the world. I am going crazy not being able to kiss or hold or sleep next to him for months at a time. That was a very long explanation to a simple question; should I postpone my academic career to be with the man I love? I would really appreciate advice from someone who has been in a similar situation. I am almost 24, and would love to hear what someone a lot more experienced in love and life has to say.

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Open Question: What kind of shampoo and conditioner should I use to help make my hair grow faster?

I just went to go get my hair trimmed and my mom wouldn't let me go to my usual hair dresser because he moved out of town. Well when I went then totally ruined my hair! :'( Well They cut my bangs way to short after I told her to leave my bangs and she did my layers to short and thinned out my hair WAY too much! I have my cousins wedding that is coming up in about 4 months and I am planning on getting my hair cut again (by my original hairdresser because I made my mom feel guilty :P) . Well before I get him to completely fix it I want my length back from before I got my hair cut that way he can do it exactly back to the way it used to be. Got any good shampoo's and conditioner's that I can buy at a drugstore to make my hair grow fast? Thank-you sooooo much! :)

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Open Question: which name sounds better for teenage character?

I'm writing a story, and one of the characters is like the popular hollywood type of teen, and i need her to have one of those hollywood-y kind of names i've got either Brier Thora Daisy Ebony Hathaway Brier Thora Hathaway Brier Chance (Lastname needed to go with "chance") Daisy Ebony Wolf Ebony Wolf or any other names and suggestions are welcome :)

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Open Question: Storm GSi 1.8L problem?

I'm lookin for a cheap, economical car to replace my car i just sold.. i saw a geo storm GSi for sale near where i live for a decent price he wants 750$ but the car has no dents, the paint is in good shape and whatnot and its @ 138K miles. he says in his post that it lags a little sometimes.. my guess is maybe a fuel filter?? maybe dirty injectors?? Some kind of sensor perhaps?? fuel pump?? i dunno but if anybody has a good idea let me know :).. id like to pick this car up sometime this week but i wanna know or at least have a good idea of what it is before i fork over the cash WellI don't see a section for Geo's ill just toss it in "Isuzu" because I'm pretty sure the storm is made by "Isuzu" anyway. oops i mean chevy.. ohh well

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Open Question: BOY HELP PLEASE!!?? CONFIDENCE HELP?

so im in highschool,and like a year ago i reconnected with this guy who i grew up with.. and now we have a HUGE chain of a billion emails back and forth at first i was rational and dumb and told him i kinda had a thing for him.. but like nothing really h appened with t hat.. so now we talk alll the time, like seriously the chain of emails is huge and we talk on fb chat alllll the time and we have like the exact same interests, exact same thoughts, exact same everything but heres the issue we haven't hung out yet,.. at all lol we are both really shy when it comes to that kinda thing so neways im planning on asking him to hang out the next time we talk, but part of the reason ive been holding back for so long. is cuz im worried about looks.. hes a really good guy, we are both christian, and idk like hes such a genuine, and honest, caring guy.. but like im so self concouse, and whenever i talk to anyone about it they all say im gorgeous and i dont need to worry about anything, and that if he does judge on looks hes def not worth it.. but i just want to be confident, and not feel that way around him, like i just want to put the idea of all that out of my mind, cuz then i would be way less nervous how do i get more confident? how do i stop worrying about all that stuff.. PLEASE help! i really really really like him, and i dont want to worry about feeling self concious please help

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Open Question: Modern Warfare 2 Classes?

What do you think is a good class and why? Rate my classes. My classes are Tar-21 silenced AA-12 extended mags Claymore Scavenger Pro Stopping Power Pro Ninja Pro All-around solid class. Ump 45 silenced RPG x2 Claymore Scavenger Pro Cold Blooded Pro Ninja Pro Best stealth class ever. Ump 45 silenced is one of the best guns in the game and doesn't need stopping power. The RPG is to kill campers. Tar-21 noob tube One Man Army Pro Danger Close Pro Commando Pro I use this only when other people do so don't bitch MP5k rapid fire G18 akimbo Scavenger Stopping Power Ninja MP5k with rapid fire has the fastest "time to kill" in MW2 and is a beast. The glocks akimbo are as well. Fmas extended mags Spaz extended mags/grip Scavenger Stopping Power Ninja/Steady Aim Still working on this one The point is to minimize reload time without slight of hand.

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Open Question: Please help me out in translating the following dialogue to Japanese. Arigatou Gozaimasu :)?

A: Tsk. It’s really getting boring here. Why don’t we plan a trip? What do you think? B: Good idea. How about going to a beach resort with lots of beautiful girls? A: You’re really smart Yi Jeong! C: Sorry, I can’t go with you. I will go to a musical concert this weekend. A: Oh man. C’mon. C: How about you D? What will you do this weekend? D: I don’t know. A: Hey D! Let’s go to the beach or let’s go on a tour. D: I’m not interested. B: How about sports? D: I’m not interested. B: Maybe D is interested in something else. C: Ooh, there’s E. A: Let’s see. Have you ask E on a date E? Tsk . Go on and ask her now. D: No way! I’m not the one who should ask. She should beg me to come with her. C: That’s not being a man. Go ask her now. B: That’s right! Go! D: Oi, What are you doing here? (refers to E) E: What? D: Nothing. What do you usually do on a weekend? E: Hmm.. I usually go the market with mom. Wait, why do you ask? You look strange today. D: Hm.. None of your business…hmm..would you like to go to a date with me? E: What? Date? Are you sick? D: Forget it. Uhm, no. Aargh. It would not matter whether you agree or not. Just meet me at the park on Saturday, 3pm. If you don’t come, you’ll be dead. And don’t be late. Understand? Bye. E: Wait! That weirdo. Why would he ask me on a date with him? I’m not going to come.

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Open Question: What's the process of recording a guitar cover to youtube?

Hello , im kind of bad at expressing this question , seeing that i've researched for more than 12 hours but to no avail , here it goes . I got a webcam,a POD studio gx,a line-in, but i just dont know how do i record the audio and video, and eventually put and sync them together. I'll try to give you a better picture . http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wf_F2dV_sGU this is what i want , seeing that i play bass and guitar , dual screen really really helps . http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tkot4AtT4KI or a single screen with the line-in sound will do just as great . i dont record from the microphone because i tried and the sound is just muffled and crappy , if anyone can teach me what programs do i even need eg audacity/windows movie maker , ill really appreciate it alot , seeing that i dont even know whether i should even record the video or the audio first . the only part i know is getting it uploaded to youtube .

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Open Question: Survey: What song can you name that mentions one of your favorite beverages?

Hotel California by The Eagles "Mirrors on the ceiling, the pink champagne on ice And she said 'We are all just prisoners here, of our own device'" Good Luck and have fun!

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Open Question: What is the best limo service in Thousand Oaks?

I am looking for a good limousine service in Thousand Oaks, Newbury Park, Camarillo, area? Specifically for a wedding, but also airport trips or party nights ya know?

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Open Question: What is a good song, with descriptive lyrics?

I'm doing an art project. I need a song with lyrics that are good to paint a picture of

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Open Question: Questions about Radiology PACS?

I'm going to college right now and currently my major is undecided. I was looking over Radiology PACS specialist, and it looks like something I'd be happy doing for the rest of my life. But honestly, I have some pressing concerns about it and thus resorted to Yahoo Answers to help me out. 1. How difficult would it be to get a job as a Radiology PACS specialist? Having a fancy degree in anything is only worth something if you can get a job to use it in. 2. What is the pay like? I've looked it up online, and several sites I've come across have said $45,000+/year, etc. One I found even said starting out with no experience atall (depending on the area of course) could get me started off at $57,000/year. I'm currently living with my parents while going to school, and my dad (being the only source of income in the house) makes just over $40,000/year and is able to support me and my brother just fine. We certainly don't do without, so having a job at that or better seems ideal to me. I'd appreciate the help or information anyone could possibly give me. Much thanks!

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Open Question: Suggest some Songs for me? ((Best Answer to which ever I like best))?

I want to listen to some new songs but dont know where to look so I want some suggestions. Some songs I do like are, Sum41- Pieces (love it) With Me (love it) The Hell Song(really good) In too Deep(good) Fat Lip(good) Matchbox 20 - 3am (really good) If Your Gone (really good) Push (good) Time After Time (really good). I basically seem to like alternative, post-grunge basically songs that have a good sound and have emotion in them not overly like some sob song but just some emotion.

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Open Question: Pain in right side of throat?

I had a really bad sinus infection the last couple weeks and took amoxicillin to get rid of it finally. Now a week later my throat is killing me when I talk, yawn or swallow only on the right side. I can feel it at back of my mouth, not really far down my throat. When I looked in the mirror, there are some bumps on the right and a dot at the back on the roof of my mouth as well. No fever or any other symptoms, feeling pretty good besides this terrible pain in my throat. Does anyone konw what is causing this or what I need to do?

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Open Question: which is a better translation?? (JAPANESE)?

google translate or Bing?

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Open Question: is the Iphone any good?

i am a cell phone and electonic geek. I have been through some of the best phones out there. Right now i am using a Nokia E75 unlocked. I am a iphone fan, android, htc, nokia. Although i've heard many stories about the iphone, good and bad. I dont know if i should get it, i am right now looking at the iphone, or the n900, can someone give me their opinion on the iphone, should i wait for the 4th generation or are they all the same? Should i get n900 instead?

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Open Question: Im looking for a motivational quote about your opponent working harder than you.?

I am going to try and describe this quote I heard once and have been looking for it for a long time, it is very important for me to find this. It is something along the lines of this: "Some day you will meet an opponent, this opponent is better than you, and he will beat you. This opponent is training right now for this moment, are you?" Thank you for the help in advance!

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Open Question: How can I help out my mother?

My Mom has had such a bad life husband divorced her for another woman failed at job interview 3 times in a row thinks that God will never help her despite her faith. She's such a strong woman to be put under such pressure her Mom is getting old and weak, her father, grandfather, 2 great friends and her aunt all passed away in a space of just 2 years. she has to carry such a big burden, and i cant seem to approach her without upsetting her. what can i do? i dont feel like a family with just me and her especially since my father never helps out. she comes back from work everyday tired and having to do housework which is still plenty even though i try to help out whenever i can. we're pressed financially too. cant sell our house and her vision is fading too. we've been christian for 7 years it feels like God has forsaken us even though we pray for forgiveness and assistance. i know God hasnt forsaken us but what is he trying to tell us? mom has no dreams or hopes for the future anymore its almost like she is sleeping her years away (even when shes physically awake) .what can i do to help mom??? i just want to be a good son and want her to live like a woman rather than a machine

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Open Question: How are some leader in history thought of as great leaders?

And others are tryants? I man seriously what stops alexander the great from being a great leader to a tyrant. Cause ive read about him (from the little histroy they have of him) and seen the movie. Seemed like a tyrant to me. And same with columbus. They did a real good cover of him on the history channel. His own country put him jail. Cause even they though he was a tyrant. No mention of all the people he raped, killed and murdered. And even the horrible acts he did to his own people? Whats up with that? Hitlers a tryant, Napoleon is a tryant, Sadaam? Whats the difference here? Stalin?

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Open Question: Have you ever had 2ND thoughts about your loved one and STAYED with them ?

argh someone flagged my last question: it doesn't show any personal info. please help: When I was dating my boyfriend I found out he placed a personal ad on craigslist "Hey, so, here it is I am a very well preserved guy who still gets out and about. I am six feet tall, nice brown hair, nice gr een eyes, biceps, lips. I get compliments and people think I am in my 20s. I am looking to meet a nice catholic girl. How nice? Well, I am tired of uptown girls with no moral center. I don't need a bible thumper so don't worry. She should be in shape and smart because I am too. I just discovered that guys who post on CL get tons of spam, so please put something fun like hot and holy in the subject line so I don't delete ya. "" i found out he placed this ad just 2 hours after he dropped me off at the train station and kissed me goodbye. we had just had what i thought was a lovely 4 day weekend. he had given me card, thoughtful gift and stuffed teddy bear. taken me to a great dinner. i gave him hell and told him i love him but he is on probation right now with me i only found out because he replied to a friend of a friend who wrote him (there arent a lot of Catholic girls in his city = small world) anyway, since then i tried to get over it. we even spent another long 4 day weekend together last week. but now the friend of a friend he replied to finally forwarded me WHAT he wrote her a month ago. From: b> To:b Sent: Thu, February 18, 2010 6:12:26 PM Subject: Re: Devout Hottie Yes, I am real. Sorry that you don't like Berkeley! I am a lawyer, I enjoy working out, movies, and learning things. I will get you a pic when I get back to my picture-bearing computer. Anyway, hope you are real and glad to hear from you. j ----- Forwarded Message ---- From: "@aol.com> To:@ymail.com Sent: Fri, February 19, 2010 1:39:35 AM Subject: Re: Devout Hottie Well, I hope you like my little picture. Anyway, I would say you sound too good to be true too, except for the voting Dem part, but I can deal. :) Oh my other hobbies are cooking and p90x. ..… Im hurt all over again. Im just wondering if I should try to stay friends with him or not.

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Open Question: if aliens landed on earth what human song would you hope that they hear first?

for them to get a better idea of our species.

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Open Question: Office Games to get promotion?

One of my peer who is at same level and has same educational background has resigned and now he is negotiating with seniors for the double promotion and good salary hike. In this case what can I do. I have the capability of replacing him by taking more responsibilities.

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Open Question: How do I deal with my life -- when I feel SO badly about everything?

I am 35 and trying to handle how awful I feel about everything in my life. I am single and cannot get a proper date (therefore very lonely). My 'friends' aren't very good to me. I have medical issues that depress me and make me feel worthless. I have an awful job (which is ending so I will also be unemployed). I can no longer be creative or very physically active because of my medical issues. I feel that I can't handle anymore. What can I do? ** please don't say therapist. I can only help myself. No insurance and no money - and NYC doesnt care. :-(

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Open Question: Should i love a guy that is really really nice but is very overweight and im thin and i can do better?

Hi umm im asking this cause plenty of really hot thin guys are asking me out but theres this one guy thats not the hottest guy and is overweight but hes the nicest out of all of them what should i do??

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Open Question: Getting MarriedIN LAWS DONT SEEM INTRESTED AT ALL NEED HELP?

So my boyfriend and I have been together for 3yrs now (know eachother four years this march) and we have two beautiful kids together recently we decided we want to get married, so were pretty happy and we want to try and do it all ourselves.. but his family doesnt seem to happy for us. I know we arent extrememly well off but were doing fine and love makes a marriage work not money, when i told his sister in law we were getting married her response was "how are you going to be able to afford that?", i was shocked because i was hoping for something along the lines of congradulations (mind you me and here dont really get along she is a few years older than me, but she has never given me a chance to get to know her but thats another story). I try to not let her get to me, since im not marrying her. His mother on the other hand she had me change the wedding date twice and i wasn't happy about it finally i said to my fiance it is my day i am not changing my mind and i am firm!, so we decided to get Married next march. My mom is happy for us and he helping for some things, but his mom her reaction is hurtful. for the groomsmen they are wearing nice dress shirts and dress pants cheaper but still nice. my brides maids are buying there own dresses but from sears *good prices* and i am getting a grad style dress for myself that is under 500.00. But no matter what ideas i have for our wedding she tries to cheap it down, i understand saving money but this is my day and my money, and her reaction everytime i bring up the wedding or plans in distant and unintrested AND LIKE it doesnt even matter to her at all, he is the baby in his family it should they only have two sons.. and its hurting my feelings yes call me petty if you like but i would love for her to take an intrest in our special day. everyone was over joyed when his brother got married they had a nice wedding in a church and a big hall nice meal etc.. but it seems like our special day means nothing to his family.. and its really hurtful.. what are some ways i can talk his mother about it and not feel so offended any advice would be helpful My fiance says he is used to beign treated like this but i feel like he should not have to feel like the black sheep, and i feel like you only get married once they should give us some respect. I am getting the feeling they dont want us to get married help

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