What should I do about it ?
I'm really confused with my life right now. I'm a 13 , nearly 14 year old girl and I've pretty much been in love with another girl who's 16 and also a lesbian for 2 years. I've been trying so hard to see past it but the more we hang out , the more I see her the more I fall in love. She didn't know I was gay too though till last week - i sent her a letter for valentines and she replyed ( I left my number.) she said thanks for it and she asked if she could add me on msn , so I said yes and she did. But when we got talking and she found out it was me she got angry and said I was copying her and to get a life etc. etc. I said on the letter I just wanted to let her know how I felt and I didnt mind at all if she didnt care and I didnt want to upset her. Now I regret it because I probably did annoy her. So now I don't know what to do. I know we can never be together - she doesnt like me and im not daft I know I'm too young , I just dont know how or when I should contact her because I'm so worried of going back to school after the holidays and her spreading it Im just so confused. I know it was the wrong thing to do and maybe I should just move on but how ? how do I move on , shes always there in my mind Im just like any girl with a guy - checking her facebook when I sign in at school wondering where she is at break. I need to make a descision on what to do , but more so how to move on . this was never meant to be but how do I get over it ? any advice would be really appreciated xxx the first one with a nice answer gets the 10 points so it doesnt have to be a long one :)
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i noticed that alot of times ppl judge yu harshly because of your past but they refuse to acknowledge the change in you . Why?
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I have a 2 year old male minature poodle who is having some problems. (He isn't well bred by any means by the way)
I won't be with him but my husband will. I'm just writing out what we've seen going on.
Now this poodle has had a lot of problems when he was a puppy that we have finally overcome as far as gastrointestinal issues and poor socialization (now he is great with people (always has been) but never has and never will be good with other dogs I don't think)
Anyways I recently had a heartworm test ran because his symptoms were mimicing heartworms but he was negative so I let it go at the moment.
But this past Sunday he went and got his vaccines at petco and they noticed he has a very irregular heartbeat.
That coupled with the coughing whenever he is active, whether is running and playing (which he wears out after just a few minutes), or going on a walk, or even just going up and down the stairs to potty.
Is a major concern.
You can actually feel his heart racing when you pick him up.
His coughing was first diagnosed as allergies when he was about a year old (but no tests were run)
His racing heart at one point was diagnosed as anxiety. But here is the kicker he hasn't been an anxious dog for awhile and he was very calm when getting his shots like it was no big deal and his hearbeat was irregular.
My question is: What might they do to check him out? What might the problem be? And might they do to help him?
We are prepared to spend what it takes to make him better (unless he is in heart failure or something that bad, because there isn't anything you can do) (I mean we spent thousands to get him well the first time he was sick)
We just had a baby recently and he is so good with the baby, I couldn't handle it if something happened to my little poodle. I really think him and the baby are going to be good buddies the way they've taken to each other. (all interaction is supervised ofcourse)
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Who else would like to see an old fashioned car commercial were they do the old 0-60 test and the braking test.
You could see some old lady in ta toyota against one in a GM the camera would cut to the gas pedal in the toyota and it would floorboard itself without even being touched the announcer would say "toyota wins 0-60" as the old lady whizzes past scattering orange cones all over and careens off the end of the course and the gm stops on a dime.
"looks like the GM won the braking test"
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My male friend of several years used to talk my leg off (I'm talking for hours), but now he's not interested in conversation at all. For the past five months, he only "communicates" if I forward him a funny e-mail by responding "LOL" (I maybe forward one funny e-mail a month and that's IT). He will not respond to my benign inquiries of, "How have you been?" or "How are the cats doing?" (This is a person who before five months ago would initiate conversation quite a bit.)
Is this his way of saying, "Leave me the h.ell alone."?
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Does this girl like me if, she laughs at my jokes(i am really funny), even when they are not funny. She slaps my a55 and then i slap hers and she just smiles. She gave this girl a hug, so of course i want 1 :), and she gave me one and she was putting her boobs in my face. Also she walks past and touches my hair and always says its really soft(I have not long hair like hippies, but not short). Always smiles at me when i talk to her, and she doesn't like it when i talk to other girls, around her. Does she like me? O.o
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I'm a freshman in high school and have a good group of friends, & I'd say I'm liked by most people - no one has a "problem" with me or anything and I'm not one of those slutty girls whos had like 10 boyfriends in the past 4 months. Actually, I've never had a boyfriend, but it's not because I'm ugly it's because of something else & it has been annoying me for waay too long.
Obviously since I've grown up with most of the people in my school & all of the people in my grade, they already have opinions and judgments of me. In school, i guess people think I'm like goody-goody & get all A's. yeah i do well in school but i dont get ALL A's. Me and my friends always talk about how at the school dances, not a lot of people ask us to dance, and honestly, I think it's because of how they already know me -- they probably don't think i know how or just don't want to dance with me because i'm not wiiiiicked popular. i try not to get into trouble in school cause i obviously want to get into a good college.
BUT, people really don't know the real me. I've been dancing hip hop (no, not the fake kind, the real 'ghetto' kind lol) for about 5 years & i love it. i know how to move my hips when it comes to grinding and yes, after the first few high school dances i DO dance with people, not the overly popular ones, but people DO ask me to dance. I want to show people that I'm not the person they usually see in school, i LOVE dancing, whether it's actual dancing OR grinding. :) & i'm good at it, so i've been told.
also, i've gone to 2 under 18 dance clubs over the past few months with my friends & we love it. i think it's cause no one knows you, so if you're cute, they'll dance with you. i just really like it because i'm sick of no one knowing that i can actually dance the inner me loveeees to party & have a good time. no, i've never smoked or drank in my whole life. but who cares i can still have fun.
basically, how can i get people in my school to know the real me? i dont want to turn into a whore/slut in order to do it, because i've noticed that most of the guys only dance with those types of girls. but i am not one, so why would i want to become one?
i just want people to know that i'm fun to be around. i want to start making new friends, obviously not to replace mine but just to have other people, you know? cause i'm starting to feel like my friends don't like going out dancing at these underage clubs AS MUCH as i do and i'm kinda worried cause i don't want it to be a habit.
just give me your feedback on this whole situation. and please, don't comment just saying "too long, didn't read." i don't need to know that you're completely ignoring my question just to get two points. i'm just simply asking for help, 'cause i'm pretty sure that's what this website is for.
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Im getting bored with youtube, also I've ben going out a lot for the past month in a half but im home schooled though. But I've ben hanging out with my friends that i don't like youtube anymore,
So what do you guys think? I want to leave youtube. Sorry if i misspelled a couple of words i am lazy and it's 5:30 am.
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I am having an error code 28 "out of sync" and can't load my farm. It has been for 5 days.
Why don't they fix the problem? I am not sure if I need to report the problem to them.
If you had the same experience in the past, would you tell me how could you get your farm back?
I am extremely sad for I can't play Farmville. I have been waiting for 5 days, but they still don't fix the problem. I tried all the steps they instructed. I updated the adobe player, cleared cookies, and refreshed browser, stopped wireless connection and plugged-in, tried another browser, etc. But it didn't work. My sister could load her farm when she was using my computer. Only my farm can't be loaded. The problem may not be in my computer, it must be in FV. I don't know what to do. I expected they would fix the problem, and I would get my farm back within 1 or 2 days. But it has been for 5 days. They are still ignoring the problem. Plz help me! How can I get my farm back? Thanks a lot for any help!
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Ever since he has become a doctor, he just came straight home and took care of his family.
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The first week, I got strep throat, i got antibiotics, the strep throat went and almost a week later it came back. When it came back it was three times worse. I got different antibiotics and it went. Now its about 4 days later and the past few days my throats been quite sore again and i have a reeeeally bad headcold. I dont see any white spots on my throat like there was when i had strep throat and its not as painful. Do i have to go to the doctor? Or is there a medicine i can take? Any home remedies or stuff that will help me get better as soon as possible?
Im going to the Meteor Music Awards on friday and I am so excited! I just cant be sick for it.
Please PLEASE Help.
Thanks in advance.
x
I went to the doctor three times! and if you'd read it rather than being a b*itch you would of known this.
Well I was looking for someone who maybe would recommend a medicine that they took for their sore throats and that worked. Or some home remedies that help sooth the throat. Things like that.
I didnt ask for people to ask me questions, i asked for help. Which you clearly arent doing. So please just dont answer any of my questions again.
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My husband had an affair lasting 1 year, and has only just cut her off after 13 months since I found out. I found out in Jan 2009.
This was his 1st ever affair and he got very, very attached to her. I need to accept this.
~He only confessed to me (but he DID disclose all info) AFTER he was busted anyway
~Continued to seek out the other woman immediately after my D-Day (Jan 2009), after promising me no-contact-with-her.
~Cut OW off on two occasions in 2009 (again after my D-Day), but always returns to her (no sex)
~Most recently, one year after D Day, is still talking to her
~Admitted in December 2009 to OW he Googles her. He also joined same Facebook pages as her, but removed himself when confronted by her
~In short - he seems to have a VERY hard time shaking her from his memory but told her he will not BE with her, esp as she had him arrested in summer 2009.
~He told her he will never forget her but can never be with her, as too much sh*t went down (she hurt him by telling me who she was, apparently, when HE thought that the affair could have carried on, had she "co-operated" with his intended lies to me.
~It did not end well between them at all. But it took them a YEAR after I found out to finally have the talk where they agreed to never talk again.
~Oh, and he told her that he cannot visit her new home "cos I can't trust myself around you and I need to be loyal to Lila".
Last point = important as this could be the thing that's finally killed off his feelings for her:
~It ended badly and with legal issues (the arrest) but he went back to her when those were resolved "just to talk to her", as recently as Jan 2010.
Ok, so now OW recently wrote him a letter, not so much giving him an ultimatum but telling her she's leaving the area and to call her if he wants to see her again, for the last time. He has not responded.
What would you think, based on the history, are the chances of him NOT contacting her due to his strong desire to try and forget her and put her in his past? Is he trying desperately to forget her as per his promise to me?
Wny does he join her Facebook groups [even though he's now deleted them from his account) and want to watch her?
We are moving on and going on holiday soon and it feels like he is getting over her and working on us. He's been talking to his old friends from back home and seems to be his pre-affair self.
He did used to tell her that he wished he could be with her "properly" and would love to live with her. They used to joke about sending me on holiday alone so he could move in with her for that week.
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When I first tie him up, he's fine. He just moves side to side alot to check out what is around him. But, as soon as I bring out the saddle pad, he moves away from me whenever I try and get close to him to put it on. When I finally get it on him and try with the saddle, if he can't get away, he'll stand still but try and bite me when I put it on.
For now I've had people hold his halter while I do it so he can't turn around to bite, but I want to be able to do it by myself.
I never give up and say "it's too hard to try" and just go home, I always make him see that I am the boss and the saddle WILL go on, but I was hoping some people could have advice on how to correct his behavior. I just bought him a few months ago, so I don't know a lot about his past. I've tried raising my voice and giving him a little smack on the neck/chest. I refuse to hit my horse on the face, so please do not offer that. But barrel racing season is comming up soon and I need to have that control in order not to miss my run by him being stupid during tacking up.
He is fine with the bridle and grooming.
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of covering or fading my stretchmarks? coz i have them on my shoulders, theyre white and are causing me to have only worn tshirts for the past 5 years, not one singlet. and in summer i pretty much melt and also feel rlly selfconscious for only wearing tshirts, (im a teenage girl)
what are some effective surgical/laser etc. options that could help fade my stretchmarks? ive got some ipl done and it helps but hasnt that much. o and i am willing to pay for it, so yer. also, what makeup can i use to cover my stretch marks, and also, how do i apply it. coz everytime ive tried i just end up with a dark splotch in the area my scars r due to all the makeup i put on. please help me!
o and pls dont giv me that "use cocoa butter" or any of that coz it doesnt work, and yes i use bio oil
thanks so much, sorry for all the questions, if u guys could help me with this id feel so much better with myself.
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My nan recently past away and the funeral is this week. as one of her granddaughter's i wanted to know when and to whom the will is read out. how will it be distributed and when are the we as the beneficiaires likely to receive our share?
who is the executor of the estate and when does that take place?
and how long does the distribution of the will tend to take? also as a beneficiary will i be given a copy?
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Dr. Carlos Castaneda was a UCLA anthropologist who happened upon a real live Native American Nagual seer, who drafted him as his appentice because he *saw* that he had the spiritual energy and configuration qualifications needed to make up a necessary quota. For over a decade, he pursued this apprenticeship, and as from the eighth year, he began to publish his account of his experiences. These detailed chronicles is what set his experience apart from many others that came before him. We now know the fundamental principles of Native American mysticism that had been covered up for centuries.
What Dr. Castaneda disclosed was a system that parallels Biblical religion, which leaves out important details that make it dysfunctional today. The past Popes did not want their churches to learn of the missing practices and become impossible to control. History indelibly records how they dealt with that major problem.
One of Don Juan Matus' major teachings was *Stopping the World.* This was the focus of most of Dr. Castaneda's third book, JOURNEY TO IXTLAN. He unveiled about seventeen separate techniques, which, if followed studiously, would enable an apprentice to *Stop the World.*
After one has *Stopped the World,* one would then *see.* The Universe would reduce to lines of luminous fibres, whose significance and purpose would be narrated to one by a disembodied commentator called *The Voice of *Seeing.*
This would correspond to the Christian Biblical doctrine of *Overcoming the World* and *Knowing The Truth.*
JOHN 8:31-32.
31. Then said Jesus to those Jews
which believed on him,
"If ye continue in my word,
then are ye my disciples indeed;
32. "And ye shall know The Truth,
and The Truth shall make you free."
JOHN 16:33.
33. "These things I have spoken unto you,
'That in me ye might have Peace.'
In The World ye shall have Tribulation:
but be of good cheer;
I have overcome the World."
1st JOHN 5:1-5.
WHOSOEVER believeth that Jesus is the Christ is born of God:
and every one that loveth Him that begat
loveth him also that is begotten of him.
2. By this we know that we love The Children of God,
"When we love God, and keep His Commandments."
3. For THIS is The Love of God,
"That we keep His Commandments:"
and His Commandments are not grievous.
4. For whatsoever is born of God overcometh the World:
and this is The Victory that overcometh the World,
"Even our Faith."
5. Who is he that overcometh the World,
but he that believeth that Jesus is The Son of God?
THE KEY to understanding what they were all on about lies with L. Ron Hubbard's Scientology "TONE SCALE" and EIGHT DYNAMICS doctrines.
THE EIGHT DYNAMICS By L. Ron Hubbard
1.Self; 2.Family; 3.Groups; 4.All Mankind; 5.All Living Things;
6. The MEST (Physical) Universe; 7.Spirits; 8.God.
THE AWARENESS LEVELS REQUIRED TO CONTROL THE DYNAMICS.
8.Self; 12.Groups; 15.All Mankind; 22.MEST Universe; 32.Spirits; 40.God.
The L. Ron Hubbard TONE SCALE (partial listing only):
40.Serenity; 30.Postulates; 22.Games; 20.Action;
8.0 Exhilaration; 6.Aesthetics;
4.0 Enthusiasm; 3.5 Cheerfulness; 3.0 Conservatism; 2.5 Boredom;
2.0 Overt Hostility; 1.8 Pain; 1.5 Anger; 1.4 Hate; 1.2 No Sympathy;
1.1 Covert Hostility; 1.0 Fear; 0.9 Sympathy; 0.5 Grief; 0.1 Apathy;
0.0 Body Death.
HUMAN AWARENESS is "chronically" 0.0 (Body Death) to 4.0 (Enthusiasm).
Confronting a Dynamics problem, a person's awareness "acutely" temporarily rises to the level needed to dominate the Dynamic level the problem exists on, so as to "AS-IS" (i.e. Annihilate) it.
If a person lacks the knowledge and life energy reserves to acutely attain dynamics solutions, one's awareness drops- and can go all the way into Fear, Grief, Apathy or even Body Death.
What is very interesting in Don Juan's teachings to Dr. Carlos Castaneda is that "The Ultimate Secret" of Ancient Sorcerers is that we are surrounded by spirit beings who vampirically feed on awareness that fails to attain *Total Knowingness* (*The Truth;* *Total Understanding;* *Stopping the World* levels.) Consider, if you can, the incredible leverage a spiritual man would have over those who do not know this. This fact accounts for the disastrous collapses that befall some who dabble in Spirituality, and quit before attaining Total Awareness. (Some end up as vegetables!)
In Christianity, serious "Prayer Warriors" often entered into empathetic states in which they identified with people whom they were praying about, to the point of feeling their pains, seeing them in visions, etc.. Then, they would have a sudden sensation of Peace (*Serenity,*) and "just know" that what they prayed for was granted and had happened. Which would later be found to have been the case. It is unfortunate that the Christian Church has never seriously investigated this phenomenon, and only rigorously invalidated the work done by the Church of Scientology, which ought to have been done b
which ought to have been done by them.
Dr. Carlos Castaneda's Tensegrity movement has not had significant results, because they largely forgot the simple fundamental teachings, becoming obsessed with the "tai-chi" calisthenics called the "Magical Passes" which gather and channel life energy, which is useless unless applied through not merely DOING the fundamental teachings, but the MEMORY of having DONE them.
This was the blunder of Pentecostal Christianity, which became obsessed with the Spiritual Manifestations some of them obtained, to the point of forgetting HOW they are obtained (by obeying Fundamental Commandments). Therefore forgetting what it was to *Overcome the World.*
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I’ve been with my girlfriend for over a year now. We have been really great, amazing over the past year, but recently things have been getting bad with my parents. Thankfully we got all that worked out last week, and Valentines Day was really great, but she didn’t talk to me yesterday, and today, she sent her dad to talk to me and tell me that she didn’t think I had my life in order, she needs a break from the relationship, and she wouldn’t talk to me for a week.
I’m 20 and still in college, so is she, and we are both trying to figure out what we want to do with our lives. I’m not understanding why she thinks my life is so messed up. I’ve been thinking that she just doesn’t want to be with me? I couldn’t even think of the possibility of another guy. I don’t know what to do to reconcile, or even come to grips with the fact that she sent her dad to talk to me.
I love her so much, I really cannot understand how this has happened. I have tried my best to make her feel loved over the past couple months because she has been going through some stuff at home, but I don’t feel too much love back. For the past couple weeks it has felt like we have been falling apart. She gets angry at me easily, and accuses me of not being a leader in our relationship. I think now, that maybe she just wants me to break up with her.
I feel sick. I cannot even fathom at how my life is going to pan out. We have been best friends for years. I cannot imagine my life without her. I honestly think I would rather die. She means so much to me.
Please help, let me know what you think about all of this.
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My father,a muslim, was having trouble with Job for past 4 years.he is now settled as the general manager of ikea and has a resonable amount of savings.When savings were upto a required amount he at once started donating to poor relatives and poor people,as a religious obligation in the name of God and out of goodwill gesture.
Will Jesus be so evil and inconsiderate that he will throw people regardless of their acts into hell because they disbelieved in him.
yes you are right but consider this as a question by all such hardworking people
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So I really like this guy that goes to college with me. We are both 20 and have known each other for about a month. Everything was going really well in the beginning of that time period. He would want to hang out all the time and call me beautiful/gorgeous/etc. We even went out on a date for Valentine's Day. But then something changed
My psychotic ex decided to butt his head into the picture (through a message on facebook, mind you) and tell this guy that if all he wants is butt from me than to get the hell away, but if he wants to date me then to treat me right and that one day he hopes that he (my ex) and I will get back together. This really pissed me off and it kind of sent this new guy for a loop. He texted me that he didn't want drama in his life and alcohol and exes are clearly that. But then he comes back and tells me after I get really bummed and text him back that I understand where he is coming from and the like (clearly bummed), anyway, he tells me that he is here for me whether we are friends or something more than friends.
But things just feel a little off. Where as we would hang out for hours on end at night he wants to go to sleep around midnight. Now he does have work in the morning and has to be out of his room at 7, so it could have to do with that. And he still does text me, it just isn't as frequent, nor does he text me to tell me good morning and good night like he used to. He did walk me back to my dorm last night, but he hadn't for the past two nights, and he has an issue with PDA so all I got was a good night hug, which I can deal with. But I really miss the sweet texts and the affectionate names and the like
This is really upsetting me and I am going to ask him about it later on today seeing I can't deal with this kind of stuff in my life right now. I really like him and he is really a good influence on me. I have quit smoking (though I only smoked when I was stressed) and am stopping my drinking and started working out more because of him.
It might also be important to mention that when we started casually dating he wanted something more than that and I wasn't ready yet, but after Valentine's I wanted something more, but was afraid to ask. Now I feel I can't because all this shit went down Monday. Should I just wait or try to feel him out about this? Or just come out and directly ask him?
Do you think he is just trying to adjust to this new sort of thing? Or is he trying to figure out where he stands? Or if I want to get back together with my ex? (which I have already made this last statement really clear that that wasn't a possibility) Do you think it is possible for me to get what I had with him back? Is this something that I just need to be patient for and let him make the first moves and see where he wants to go with it?
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I am on Seasonique, and I only get my period 4 times a year. This is my first 'bleed week' since starting the pill, and I am on my 4th day of placebo pills. I have not yet gotten my period, although I have felt some mild cramping as if I was going to get it the past few days yet it has not come. The odds of me being pregnant are very slim as I have never missed a pill and my boyfriend and I have only had sex without a condom twice since I started the pill ( and we waited 2 months after I started the pill to do so) but have used condoms every single time otherwise, none of them have broken. I know my cycle can be kind of irregular since this is my first time being on birth control. What should I expect? Should I wait to start my new pack until I get my period?
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For the past month I have been job shadowing teachers in grades 5, 6 and 7 which is ages 10 - 13. I'm investigating the possibility of being a teacher. looking at all the aspects of it ( the benefits; challenges; subject choices; the childrens ages and so on)
I have interviewed teachers asking what they studied and university and how they balance their work life and personal life.
I would like to know from teachers from all around the world what are the challenges and advantages of being a teacher? what grade they teach? and what is it like having to juggle school life/work and having a family?
thank you all:)
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The Olympics obviously have some of the best athletes in the world.
Also, people in the US military tend to be in good physical condition, and there are a few that are in absolutely fantastic condition.
I know there have been people in the past who have military histories and have competed in the Olympics. But there haven't been very many, and they're a bit of a rarity today. It seems a little odd since they both put such an emphasis on physical conditioning.
So why are there so few Olympians from the US military?
As a second question, do you think the military would benefit from having a program that allowed Olympic athletes to serve and train at the same time?
Maybe it could be something similar to the US Marine Band, where experienced musicians are recruited (and in the case of the Olympics, experienced athletes could be recruited).
It might be a good recruitment promotion and would be another way of portraying our armed services in a positive light.
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Hi Everybody,
I am an Indian Citizen currently living in the UK for the past two years on a Tier 1 Work Visa. I was wondering whether I can apply for a B2 visa to visit family and friends in the US.
If its possible and anyone went through the same situation like me, can they please let me know what sort of documentation that I would need from my end and whether I would need any documentation from my family residing in the US.
Thanks and appreciate the help.
Cheers,
Ravi
Hi Ali,
Thx for your prompt reply.
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I am 32 and have met a man I really like. He is 48 has never had much luck with women. He is not conventionally handsome but see's himself as incredibly ugly. He has had relationships in the past which have ended badly and he's been on his own for about 10 years now. He had a fairly traumatic childhood involving abandonment and illness which he still suffers from. He also thinks now that he is too old to change or be helped by therapy. I think that he is quite deeply terrified of getting close to anyone especially a woman.
He likes me and is attracted to me, tells me I am sexy and pretty but then says that he is too old, too ugly and too messed up for me and that I deserve a younger man who is worthy of me. He is always so sweet to me always making me mix tapes, giving me little gifts, taking me out and taking my hand in crowded places as he knows I get nervous in crowds but when I try to do anything for him be it cooking him dinner, making him a cake or trying to kiss him he backs off and gets defensive. It's like the shutters just go down and he's unreachable. Why does he keep reaching out to me and then pushing me away? Does he want me or not?
Have you any idea what is going on with him and it there anything I could do to help him?
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Hi! Thanks for taking the time to read my question!
At the beginning of this year, I met an Italian/Sicilian guy in a club. We got kind of close but nothing serious happened. He went back to his country and added me on Facebook. We talked a few times and I noticed that he is nearly always asking me about what I do and stuff. Apart from that, he nearly always told me how much he likes me (and I told him that I like him back) and to go and visit him in Sicily because he is coming in my country in summer. However one thing that bugs me a bit, is that when I ask him about himself, he seems to withdraw a bit and I don't know why. I don't know for sure though, because its just a feeling I have got.
Lately I also got the impression that he seems dry/indifferent in his conversations. So yesterday I told him so, and if I was annoying or boring him, I would leave, no problem at all. And then he went like no of course you are not disturbing me. Then, as we were saying our goodbyes, he told me to think about him/keep him in mind. And I went like you can think of me too if you want. And he said always even more.
So people, do you have any idea if he might have meant what he said regarding the last part? And could the difference in our cultures affect the way we understand each others' conversations? Because I don't know whether I should believe him or not. And in addition, it seems that he likes another girl in my country and I guess I am feeling kind of jealous because she is more forward than I am (I am quite a shy person).
I am not looking for a yes or a no or an instruction on what to do, but mainly your opinions please. Thanks!
P.S. - I don't know, but maybe the below past questions can help:
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApZaNbE2xCx5Ebqnps0YE.YhBgx.;_ylv=3?qid=20100212030236AArtEh8
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjiwgSgqWadG6mpHSfX8g68hBgx.;_ylv=3?qid=20100212034958AAcNohN
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I'm guessing it's just because of pms because I am supposed to get my period this week, but it's like getting out of hand. Literally EVERYTHING is making me sooo angry. I'm not like this! I'm usually a nice person, but the past about 4 days I have just been a horrible person! Everything is just annoying me like crazyyyy, why is it so much worse than normal??
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I find this really ironic, sure the Palestinian people have been oppressed and are being oppressed and deserve a state but no way does that justify what the PLO have done in the past and the Arab States infamous statement 'we will drive the jews into the sea'. The palestinians (or certain groups rather) have NOT always been innocent either
And the Quran clearly illustrates the fact that Israel belongs to the Jews
"And [remember] when Moses said to his people: 'O my people, call in remembrance the favour of God unto you, when he produced prophets among you, made you kings, and gave to you what He had not given to any other among the peoples. O my people, enter the Holy Land which God has assigned unto you, and turn not back ignominiously, for then will ye be overthrown, to your own ruin.'" [Qur'an 5:20-21]
"And thereafter We [Allah] said to the Children of Israel: 'Dwell securely in the Promised Land. And when the last warning will come to pass, we will gather you together in a mingled crowd.'" [Qur'an 17:104]
are muslims aware of these terrorist activities done by the PLO?
The 1970 Avivim school bus massacre by the Democratic Front for the Liberation of Palestine (DFLP), killed nine children, three adults and crippled 19.
In 1972 the Black September Organization carried out the Munich massacre of Israeli Olympic athletes.
In 1974 members of the DFLP seized a school in Israel and killed a total of 26 students and adults and wounded over 70 in the Ma'alot massacre.
The 1975 Savoy Hotel hostage situation killing 8 civilians and 3 soldiers, carried out by Fatah.
The 1978 Coastal Road massacre killing 37 Israeli civilians and wounding 76, also carried out by Fatah.
The UN proposed a solution for a state division long ago, the Arabs rejected which resulted in a civil war and then they started bombing, raiding and killing innocent Israelis because they couldnt fight the military
khalid even if we were to accept that argument that wouldnt mean the Palestinians are descendents of Israel, thats Ishmael. And that further demonstrates the rights of Jews to the land
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i went to the doctor on monday and he did an internal exam. he said my cervix was still way up there and that im not dilated or effaced at all. im 38 weeks and so ready to have my little girl. ive been having contraction on and off since 36 weeks but last night my contractions were terribly painful. anyone think that labor could be coming sometime soon or am i looking at going past my due date? this is my first baby so i have no idea.
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guilty about what we both did, when i asked her why is she feeling guilty about she is saying that she is remembering her past about her ex boyfriend i told her not to feel guilty about anything like that but she is really hurted wat she did it with me and she wants to stay away from just because of this! i want her in my life i don't wanna lose??? so please help me what should i do to make her feel happy always and forget her past??
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I am coming, within me is the truth and the power to rip this world a part governor and subordinates know that I know truth of you and your influence in and of government. I will say this again as I have done in the past, not all government workers,military local government official believe in this present day United States. Lake city florida remember the last out break of storms after you killed and covered up my father death.This time these storms will consume you. Jasper you will not be forgotten among others.
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Once upon a time we had a rule book for the simple game of Aussie Rules Football which applied to ALL players ALL the time REGARDLESS and umpiring was a simple job done well 99% of the time.
Teams relied on skill and fitness to win games and coaches relied on changing man-on-man match-ups and player combinations around the ground to get the winning edge.
COACHES AND TACTICTIONISTS then began looking for subtle ways to exploit the rules for their team's benefit, a very short-sighted tactic which other coaches then emulate and advantage is lost.
To stamp out the rule exploitation, the AFL brings in a new rule which requires umpires to USE THEIR DISCRETION. This will NEVER be fair even 75% of the time thus lowering umpiring standards
Surely the onus should be on clubs and coaches to keep rule book exploitation OFF the field.!
BACK TO BASICS> Examine all rule changes of the past 30 odd years and unless they meet the criteria of affecting ALL players at ALL times and in ALL circumstances REGARDLESS - put them in a CODE VIOLATION BOOK for clubs and coaches with HEFTY penalties handed out by the match review committee. Let's have a Game Rule Book that is simple Black and White - NO SHADES OF GREY !!!!! What is your opinion ?
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I've been playing Piano for 4 weeks now, i only have time to practice 3 nights including one day of lessons so 4 days. I only get to practice for 2 hours as i get home late from work(working 2 jobs)
In the past 4 weeks ive learned how to play one cleff at a time fine, ut having hard time playing both. I can only focus on one cleff at a time. Is this a level of a beginner? or below a beginner? Im just curious if im moving on slow or normally.
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I am making 100k a year and i am planning on getting divorced. I have one little baby 6month old. My wife has a bad credit, does not have a job, does not speak english very well and does not have any other place to go to (maybe she can go to her mom home). She worked for 8 dollars job in the past. I have heard that if we get divorced, i will not just have to provide her child support, but i have to provide her rental apartment, food and medical insurance. I do not have money in my account, but i have two good cars. It is my only assets. Please, let me know what should i do to get rid of her as easy as possible?. I am willing to pay her child support, but not her rent and food.
What will happen if i divorced her? How much she will take away from me?
Does she has to live with the same state that i live in?
How much child support i will have to pay?
Based on the above description, Can i get the custody of the baby?
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ok so heres the problem i have an 8 month old female and she wont eat very often and i gets me really worried becuase she is the runt of the litter and she had had meny health problems in the past i dont know what to do can someone help me i be crushed if i lost my little girl
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I know what I'm doing is unfair, and I don't believe in love, so please dont ask me 'do you love her?'
But..I resent a few things about my wife which I would really like to get over but can't..they only seem to have started bothering me latley.
1. She has a past and now is sorry for it. I don't have a past, I feel like she had her fun, but I was hard done by events, so I resent her.
2. She's older than me and looks aged. I've never made love to a young girl, and looking at her wrinkles annoys me. WHile she had made love to whoever she wanted when young, then I resent her.
I don't want to divorce her.give advice.
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Ok.. I am Married Just got Married last year, so we are still fresh.. I love my husband but sometimes I get this feeling like hes doing something wrong But I can not prove it yet. And sometimes when I go through his phone I see where he has deleted some text messages or he has deleted all his messages off his myspace page. I dont know what to do. Hes a good Husband he works and he barely goes anywhere besides there. And for the past week or 2 he barely helps me around the house barely takes out the trash. And for some reason I dont be wanting to have sex with him.. Its someting And I just Cant put my hands on it.. Someone HELP!!!!!
And yes he has done this Before. Im not just going thru it for nothing.
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I have an iPod nano 4th generation and lately it is skipping past songs, either when it changes songs, i fast forward to the next song, or choose a song from a playlist. How do I stop this?
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For the past three days I have felt terribleheadaches, dizziness, and just plain weird. I had a hunch that I was pregnant and, sure enough, I took two tests yesterday that were positive (Yay!). This is my third baby, and I don't remember feeling this way with either of my other two until later in the pregnancies. It is still two days before I was supposed to get my period, so I can't be very far along at all. I am just curious as to why I am feeling so yucky, and whether or not faintness and headaches are normal at this stage. Thanks in advance!
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I think my guy friend may like me again but im not sure. I asked this question under another catagory but didnt get many or good answers. But to some of the answers i did get, thankyou very much. They were helpful. But i just need as many perspectives on this as possible.
Ive been going over this in my head, and ive spoken to my friends about it, but i need another opinion. I APOLOGISE IN ADVANCE FOR THIS BEING AN ESSAY!! lol!
Last year i met this guy though a friend and we dated for about 3 months. We didnt really see much of eachother cuz we were both going through an intense time applying to uni's (im 19, he's 22). Anyway, he broke it off cuz he just wasnt in the right place for a relationship at that time and he had loads of other issues too. So i just had to accept it. We both really liked eachother though, and he still wanted to remain friends, which was cool cuz we hadnt slept together or anything, and i still really enjoyed his company.
From then till now he has changed so much. His life is so much more stable now, and he has stopped all his "bad habits" (not going in to detail as its a bit personal for me to just tell random people but you get what i mean). Hes so much happier now. Its so lovely to see.
Lately though, (like in the past 4 months), he has been very touchy feely with me. He's always teasing me. He stares at me and smiles. We talk to eachother more than we ever did when we were dating. Hes always asking me about my family, he even mentioned about meeting themmy dad in particular. He wanted to make me dinner at christmas time, but ended up getting really busy, and so did i, but is still going to plan a time to do it. The other week he held my hand whilst we crossed the road. And the past couple of times hes put his arm around me when we walk outside, and we link arms too. We have quite intense coversations about things, and he does tell me quite personal things. He even bought me a present last week.
This is basically it, or there is just so much ive forgotten half of it lol. But i just need another opinion on it. Like i said ive spoken to a couple of friends and they've both said the same thing. I just think that some of the things are quite out of the friend zone.
More recently he has become more verbal about things. Like he told me he thinks im really cute, and when we were laughing, he grabbed me and kissed me on the forehead.
Help will be greatly appreciated :) x x
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I moved schools trying to leave my past behind. But sometimes i feel that i wish i had someone from my new school that knew so i didn't feel so alone all the time. But it's always risky telling someone something like that.
In the past year. I was suicidal, cutting myself, i get abused by my father and i have a serious self image problem, I was starving myself, forcing myself to throw up. Then allot of my "friends" found out and that made it a whole lot worse. So many people knew. The constant teasing. Loosing friends lover it. I was put into counseling. Which actually made it worse for me because i hated the counseling. and i skipped school so i didn't have to go and see that man. I hated him so much.
Telling someone about it for the first time. IS scary. It was different with my current. REAL friends. Because when i told them. It was at the beginning of it all. as horrible as i feel for taking my friend on that fucking disgusting ride i went on. It was easier for me to explain to all to them. If that makes sense.
Im a lot more stable now. I have my moments. But i hardly ever cut myself now. And i hardly starve myself or throw up anymore.
I changed schools because that all became to hard for me to deal with. And the memories where too much.
But. Idk. As much as the memories hurt. And re-telling it hurts a lot, i mean when my friends try and talk about it with me. I'm forcing back tears. I feel that i want Just someone to know. But then. What happens if it all backfires. And they go ahead and spread roomers about me. What should I do? Too tell or not to tell?
I'm feeling pretty lost right now. Please help !?
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give the legal advice for getting my full salary which i used to get for thr past 5months
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Okay, so I'm trying to make my own text tone, like the sound it makes when I get a text message. I want a part of a song. And, this is NOT for the iPhoneall of them out there seem to be for the iPhone. Please help, I've been looking everywhere for the past day at least. I don't really have the money to pay for one either. :( Thank you.
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Have any athletes hooked up (across national boundaries) and later shared the tale?
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So over the past weekend this guy I really like has been texting me, but then like the last 3 days he's been ignoring me. Today is his b-day, and at my school its a big deal cause he's really popular. I want to dis him, but is that the right thing to do?
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so i'm laying down in bed and trying to sleep, but i keep feeling like i run out of breath every now and then.
i couldn't figure out what it was.
so i placed two fingers under my jaw and check my heart rate, and this is how it went.
pump, pump, pump, pause pump, pump, pause pump, pump, pump, pause. pump, pump, pump pause.
why does my heart pump 3-4 times over 2 seconds, and just pause for an entire second?
been doing this for the past 2 hours.
i'm taking a supplement called "Novadex xt"
i took it last year (8 week course), and am starting it back up from my off cycle (2nd day so far).
i didn't have this problem during the first cycle.
i've taken other heart rate accelerators (testonate 50, n.o. shotgun, n.o. explode, spawn) and haven't experienced this problem.
last time i experienced this mysterious heart rate was a few years back before i quit smoking.
i'm 24 years old, and would consider myself pretty healthy.
i'm at 5.9% body fat, 155 lbs, and exercise 5 days a week (been weight lifting since 2008)
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I am the eldest of three children and the only daughter. Like I stated in my last question, I am a bit of a recluse and I don't like going out a lot. I wouldn't say I am a tomboy, I don't mind wearing stylish clothes but I hate trying on new clothes. I play video games a lot and I spend most of my time on the computer.
I don't like going outside because it is very cold, but that factor aside, I am generally uncomfortable being out and I feel more comfortable in my room at home. Where I live, the populars hang around my place a lot more than any other place, and I am afraid that they will laugh at me or snigger if I walk past. Afterall, many of the members of their group bully me.
My mom knows how emotional I feel, that I don't have that many friends, not many people like me and that I am always depressed when I get back home from school. She knows I cry a lot, but still she tells me that she wishes she had another daughter, and even though she doesn't shout it at me, the words still have the same effect.
It really hurts me when she says that, because I try to live up to her expectations and please her, but her expectations are outside of my comfort zone. I know if I was her I would probably have wished for another daughter who was a bit more classy and liked going out, but it is like the stabbing of the knife when those words come out of her mouth.
What should I do?
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I'm 16 and every year around september I see this huge shadow man lurking around and it's freaking me out.It n ever seems to go away and i want answers
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We are always being reminded that the game has changed so much, that it is so much faster, the players are fitter, conditions are so different, rules have changed etc etc etc.
But how would you rate the champions of the past, I think the likes of John Nicholls, Bruce Doull, Jezza, Royce Hart, etc , would be champions no matter what era they played in, yet i have heard people say they would not be able to keep up etc. their fitness was suspect in those days etc, they were much slower, we hear it all the time, whats your opinion
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I've been feeling ill for about a month and a half now. extremely fatigued and have had swollen lymph nodes in numerous places. I took a blood test 6 weeks ago and the only irregularity the doc found was an underactive thyroid, and wanted me back in 6-8 weeks for another blood test. However, very recently within the past couple of weeks I have noticed that the veins in my hands have become clearly visible throughout the palm area and even into the fingers (they have never been like this before). and also sometimes the skin on my palms and fingers where the veins are now visible are becoming mottled, that is, red and white blotchy patches (it's not from being hot or cold and it's not actually on the skin like a rash, more like under the skin from blood or something.). I have a doctors appt next week to get blood taken again so my question is, should i just wait til the appointment and add these symptoms to the list then, or could this be more serious and should I schedule the appointment as soon as possible? Thanks.
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